{"id":979,"date":"2020-01-06T12:23:05","date_gmt":"2020-01-06T12:23:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pattigermancounseling.com\/?page_id=979"},"modified":"2020-01-13T13:35:57","modified_gmt":"2020-01-13T13:35:57","slug":"family-therapy2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/pattigermancounseling.com\/index.php\/family-therapy2\/","title":{"rendered":"Family Therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.6&#8243; background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,0,0,0.3)&#8221; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/pattigermancounseling.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Patti-family-therapy.jpg&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;overlay&#8221; height=&#8221;300px&#8221; max_height=&#8221;300px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_post_title meta=&#8221;off&#8221; featured_image=&#8221;off&#8221; text_color=&#8221;light&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.24&#8243; title_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; title_font_size=&#8221;34px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-40px||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_post_title][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.24&#8243;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;2_5,3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;||80px&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; header_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_line_height=&#8221;1.5em&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_2_line_height=&#8221;1.5em&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><span>When treating individuals, couples and families in therapy, I use what is known as the \u201cfamily systems theory&#8221;.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/pattigermancounseling.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/ab_img1.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;Family Therapy&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Family Therapy&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.6&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Problems at school such as bullying<br \/>\u2022 Substance abuse in and out of the home<br \/>\u2022 Disordered eating<br \/>\u2022 Change that impacts the entire family<br \/>\u2022 Frequent fighting and arguing<br \/>\u2022 Domestic violence<br \/>\u2022 Relationship problems<br \/>\u2022 Coping with divorce or separation<br \/>\u2022 Parent conflict<br \/>\u2022 Difficulties between siblings<br \/>\u2022 Behavior problems<br \/>\u2022 Planning for shared custody of children<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb use_icon=&#8221;on&#8221; font_icon=&#8221;%%63%%&#8221; icon_color=&#8221;#076da9&#8243; icon_placement=&#8221;left&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.5&#8243; body_font=&#8221;||on||||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span>Self-expression must pass into communication for its fulfillment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8212;<\/span><i>Pearl S. Buck<\/i><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.6&#8243; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<h3><b>What is Family Therapy?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Family systems regards the \u201cfamily as a whole\u201d as the \u201cunit of treatment\u201d and emphasizes its interdependency in relationships and communication, rather than focusing on the traits or symptoms of its individual members.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding human behavior and treating it may be approached through two philosophical gateways: individual psychotherapy and family therapy. The earliest approaches to psychotherapy prevalent in the 20th Century were centered on the individual and the patient-therapist relationship. Freud and Rogers focused on the individual and believed that psychological problems were the result of neurotic conflicts and destructive interactions in one\u2019s family of origin; that intra-psychic dynamics, internalized from family life, controlled behavior. They felt that treatment, therefore, should be directed at the seat of pathology\u2014the \u201cidentified patient\u201d. Hence, patients were segregated from their families for therapy, while treatment focused on their individual symptomatic behaviors to treat their psychological problems. Conversely, Family Therapy believes that the dominant forces in our lives stem from the family, and are located externally, in the system.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Though both philosophies offered an approach to treatment, family therapy ushered in a whole new way of understanding and explaining human behavior. The premise of family therapy is centered around the concept that families repeat themselves and psychological problems are developed and maintained in the social context of the family. What happens in one generation will often replicate itself in the next. This new contextual perspective relocated the responsibility for the problems and the hub of treatment from the internal world of the individual patient to the entire family. The family therapist recognizes the familial patterns, reinforcing the positive and facilitating change of the negative by understanding legacies, secrets and unspoken messages passed down through the generations of the family.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In my practice, I work with families that are dealing with co-dependency, addiction, divorce or separation, disruptive children (especially those labeled ADD\/ADHD\u2014Attention Deficit or similar disorders), death or loss (of a family member), and other situations that may affect the whole family unit. 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